Conversation is a very important part of a date. But during dates you some times can have troubles with maintaining an interesting conversation with your date. Silence has fallen between you and her. You feel you need to bring up new topic of discussion or just say something. Certainly you can always start to talk about weather (if you haven’t done it earlier), but it’s not a good move. Weather topic in conversation is far from original or exciting. As for me it’s very boring actually. So you should ask about or tell something instead.

In order to learn about her or to tell her about yourself, you could definitely talk about: her or yours interests, favorite films, TV-shows, books, pets, sports or other activities, food and drinks you both like, qualities and characteristics you or her appreciate in people etc. These are common topics that in anyway you should bring in conversation. But you are sure this would be enough? Don’t you like to add something more unusual to make a conversation fun and interesting?

So, there are some tips which would be very helpful in creating a fun conversation. You could talk with your girl on such topics:

- You have to make a trip in a time machine, what century and country you will chose?

- Imagine the happiest day of your life – what would it be?

- You can live all your life in a certain age, what age will you chose and why?

- Your fears (excellent topic, your girl will feel some adrenalin inside. One thing to remember is to end this discussion in time)

- Dreams (do they come true sometimes; weird dreams)

- Reincarnations (what creature or plan do you think you were in previous life) – you can also tell a fun story you was a bee, a knight etc. in a past life, it’s up to your imagination.

- On what things would you spend the last 1000$ in your life?

- On a place of which celebrity do you want to be for a one week?

- Every person is unique. What unique quality do you have?

- With what color do you associate yourself and why?

- Imagine that all your dreams and expectations come true – what you will do next?

- You are in a middle of a foreign country and you don’t know a language – what will you do?

- The traditions of ancient countries and mystic rituals (well it is very unusual topic, just try to find some interesting traditions to tell about and it will catch attention of a girl)

Well, this was only a small list of interesting things you could use on your date-talks with girls. If you use your imagination you will certainly find some other things to discuss on a date. These examples will help your creativity.

But remember that talking to a girl it is much more important not what you say but how you say it. You must have a confident voice, be relaxed and have a pleasant intonation in your voice.

Good luck on your dates.
author: Alex Kamishin