Imagine that you met a friend in Internet. You think that he is a good friend and you start think about something more than that. This really scares you, because you don’t know anything about this person, except he told about himself. Also you are afraid of the situation if he will not attract you or, in vice versa, he will attract you, but you will not attract him as well. After all you decide to meet him in real-life.

Here is the list of interesting advices, which could help you in situations like this:

Try to be open-heart.

Remember that this is the blind-type date. This person sees you first time in his life. You can dream of him, but do not overdo with this, because if you will imagine something awesome, there is risk to disappoint for you. You need just first several minutes to define how you are attractive for him. So do not cherish unnecessary hopes.

Do not limit yourself.

Do not make the blind date for a long or limited time like theatre or supper. It is better you to organize something like coffee-break. Because if you will not like this person extremely – you will be able to get away from him quickly. Or if you will like him – you can fix the day of the next date for longer time.

Foresee the retreat way.

It is better you to foresee the good excuse for the situation if you do nor like your dating partner extremely. You can ask some familiar person (for example, any of your parents of the close friend) to make a call you after sometime after you date started and if you still will need this – you can go away. Or you can find out an excuse by yourself, tell him that you gave promised someone to help in something or go shopping and leave too. If you liked your dating partner, you still can decline the offer to go somewhere for leave your partner and stay with him.

Do not wear the mask.

If you will try to show yourself better or just other then you are – you will make a big mistake; so just be as you always are.

This is the first time, so it is very important – to make the right impression. Your personality will be seen anyway, so do not try to hide it. In spite of the first impression is very important, but it is better to make the true impression then false. It is important that this person will learn you, but not image that you have thought up. He really wants to know who you are.

Do not be afraid.

The blind date is not too bad, especially if you something heard about person, who you will meet with. If this date was managed by your common friends – you may relax a little, because the friend always know what do you need and the date really can be spent successfully in this situation.

Always let your friends know where you are and what the person, who you are meeting with is. In this case your friend can join you if something will be wrong. Or he can check up your condition after each fifteen minutes.

Who is the creditor?

This the simple issue. If you are a male – offer to pay it all by your self. Decline any help. If you are a girl – offer to make it half-and-half. That is all.

How is it better to say goodbye?

You can feel uncomfortable when you are going to say good bye. Please, try to not. Yes, it is hard to decide kiss the person you liked. And what if you did not like him? How to say that? I can just tell you, do not be afraid. If you feel right – you shall say it and do not be shy. It always is better to be honest with him and yourself.

The common impressions after the date.

Try to analyze everything that he does. His manners, his speech, his face – all of that can help you to make your opinion about him. You must have the common things – if the other way – this relationship will be hard.

Remember the thing that your partner should not to do during the date:

- tell you about his former love.
- If he is a male – he should offer to pay your bill. If he didn’t – be careful.
- If he talks about his mother – he should to tell good things. If he doesn’t – this the bad sign.
- He is rude with the waiters.

- He has to show his cleanliness.

Remember this and use this rules.