Each of us – if he is alone, of course – hopes that at one great day he will find person, who he wants to spend entire life with. Also each of us has got disappointed sometimes and thought that the time was really wasted. If you right now feel self-pathetic – stop.

You are unhappy, so what? If you are trying to meet someone from internet and do not really know how it will end, like a lot of other people, doing the same and getting afraid and the disappointed, you have to think about how it has started and analyze what was wrong. That analysis could bring you knowledge, about you have missed your wills and have chosen just dating partner, but you have not listening yourself, your true wills. What streaks are important for you in person like this? What do you wait from this person? What conflicts you are able to forgive and what you are not?

As soon as you will find it out, you will understand that you could stay in dating period forever; so now you can get away from that and move far. You have to know, if this is really your person or not? If there is not – so it better not to organize the next dating scene. And stop to be afraid of hurting person – it is your life and this is just a first dating, so it cannot be so offensive. There are a lot of cases when somebody took the first dating too close to heart. Do not doubt – this is frequent practice to say the truth about interrupting relationship just started. I do not mean that you have to be rude and angry, and screw your partner, but you HAVE to avoid disappointment and unnecessary dating as well.

After all you can organize the dating. Accept dating as just a dating. Focus on data target: find out, does your partner fit you or not? People sometimes forget about dating purpose, think about opinion, which his partner will make. Monitor all of your partner’s moves and mimics, try to analyze more exactly.

Sometimes people stay with person that they don’t like really; this usually happens because of being afraid to stay alone for entire life. In that cases people usually try to convince themselves that they are too squeamish. But if this is really is not so – stop to lie to yourself. If being with this person is not really yours – you have not to stay with him, and it better to keep search for the right person. If you have got not what you wanted – do not be afraid that you really can hurt somebody by that. After all you will be able to find person, with whom you want to spend the entire life.
In seeking of your destiny think more about yourself, and you will be free from misunderstanding and some kind of disappointments.