In fact, it's pretty simple. Deep in the heart of every human being has a secret desire to be trusted. How many times people say to their wives: "If you only want to trust me." Many people wonder why it seems so difficult for their wives to do something seemingly simple. The answer follows from the physiological differences between the sexes.

It begins at birth when little man gets a variety of physical benefits, compared with girls having higher levels of testosterone. With testosterone comes the physical strength to protect themselves from danger and / or flee from danger. Most little girls features. They have the strength to defend themselves in a fight when they feel threatened. If a boy trusts, who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically (or try). Little girls do not have a choice of physical force. Because people can only expect from a position of strength, those same girls will grow up to women who are naturally more difficult to "trust" when they feel vulnerable.

So people, when you ask the woman of your choice to simply "believe," it does not mean that he can not he just be more vulnerable than you. If you want her to trust you, he must do something that would help build confidence.

Perhaps even a tool or gesture that he could "count on" until that trust you have installed. Fortunately, this tool already exists and is known to every woman. What cultivates trust in a woman is a person who constantly keeps his word. Creating a promise is meaningless if there is no end.

A woman should see her man fulfill his promises because seeing is always more powerful than hearing. Let me illustrate. Imagine someone told you that I was the meanest person they had ever met. For months all you heard how badly I treated my family and friends. Then one day you met me and during our meetings start to notice that I did not seem as horrible as you were led to believe. I really seems to be pretty nice. Want to change your entire opinion of me from the visit? Probably not! However, if you saw me respond with kindness and constant affection for the week, your opinion of me will change. The paradox was just created. Kindness you saw me for the past few weeks, do not match what you have heard of me. All the rumors as to say that I began to disappear in the dark because of my consistent actions. Over time, what you see is replaced by the majority, if not all of your concerns about my character.

Men, women, when you love sees your words lining up with his actions, the trust in a natural way. If you do not keep your word it causes your wife / girlfriend will be scared. From his perspective, he was assigned to my heart and want to trust you. He just needs your help in giving you what you want.