If you want to find a friend – try online dating too. As one wise man claimed, it better to find a new friend every five years. I don’t know how good it is, but sounds clever. Maybe, you should follow this advice. When you were younger, we have a new friend almost every day; but this ends with becoming adult. We experience the twists and turns of life and when we are about adult, we have limited backbone of our friends circle. I suppose, you can call them most reliable and lovely, and I am sure that you have grown up and now you have so much friends, how many you can communicate and keep in hardly closerelationship. It is not so easy how it can seem.

When you make the acquaintance of somebody, let it be your new friend, this process it looks like usual dating. There are only both you, in spite of how many people are around you, and you start to learn each other. After all you find out do you can become a friends as well or not. Even if you supposed to be not only friends in future – you need to become friends at the beginning phase for that. When you think about something common between two people you have not to mean only physical criterions like appearance, stature, color of hair, color of eyes, fingers and lips, you know what I mean; you also have to think about common thoughts, interests, sense of humour, you also need to have something to talk about, actually it better to be interesting for you both. That can become a foundation for friendship or love – you both can decide it lately.

Sometimes happens that we decline relationship chance because of some missing streak in our partner portrait. We think that if we cannot be lover, so we will not communicate at all. But I am going to say that lover is not all – if we decline this relationship – we also relinquish maybe a good friend. As we know – it is always good to have new friend. Think about this person can become your best friend; don’t you think that you don’t need best friend? That is right – it is care must be taken to keep such people, do not judge by they have not any streaks that needed for you, because you see this person as your certain lover and not anymore.

But, don’t think that I supposed you to turn every lost lover as a new best friend, no way. Try to have one or two that is the statistics, think about it – only one or two of you lost “best lovers” can become your “best friends”. So don’t think about let him know that you are not going to keep relationship with him anymore, keep calm and try to fit him as your best friend. But there is one important thing also: make him sure that there is no any romance between you and him as well.

Anyway, friendship is compulsory condition for any kind of ideal relationship. Did you noticed that you feel much better with your best friend neither your lover? I am sure that you said it several times at least. It is partially right, friendship strengthens every relationship, if your partner is your best friend, you can always rely on him, trust him, and you may not confuse to say something, in other words, you feel much freely, and this is excellent.

In fact, the point of dating is to find a friend and then love him more than just a friend. You must first make a connection and build a relationship out of it. That is the reason why sex only doesn't form a firm bond between people. It is amazing that lots of best friends became a good couple and got married after all.

Nowadays the dating is almost production line, so we miss some of basic love dating components, because of internet and online communication. But do not forget about trust and friendship. This actually is the foundation of all relationship. If you trust somebody – this means that you are ready to open your heart and you ready to go far. Remember – friendship is everything.