Experience shows that people visit dating sites for several reasons and those reasons have tried to formulate the creators of these sites in terms of objectives to meet: romantic, sexual, correspondence, serious, etc. Initially, you may attract interest here, waiting for a new adventure or a specific goal to find yourself another. Those who come to satisfy curiosity, to quickly reach the goal and disappear. Tradititional dating site are people who prefer to communicate in the virtual world of communication in the real world, everyday. For them, not so much important to find a partner, then to continue to meet with him \"real\" as herself \"tusovka, communicating with new people through the Internet. And I must say that this goal they realize it is because this is where you can meet a man with whom may never have met in my life, not to mention the international nature of dating. In this sense, you get a unique opportunity to experience a new and interesting experience.

Advantages of internet dating

The advantage of communicating via the Internet is anonymity, is that you do not have to be yourself. You can choose to undertake any role to wear any mask and your partner may never know who is behind this role, a mask. You can become a positive favorite hero or villain, playing a positive or negative qualities of their nature. As Zorro, you\'ll appear and disappear at any time that you define yourself.

So you begin to feel more relaxed and directly, than in real life, where you are constrained by certain social roles. Someone such game will be like but do not think she will like a man who wants to find the real object for dating. If you want to meet a life partner, then some time you will have to carry on correspondence as in the old novels, except that instead of a fashionable girl\'s album, you\'ll have to answer to the questions, not always comprehensible.

Box \"hobby, hobbies,\" suggests compatibility with your partner. For example, if a girl likes disco, a young man - fishing, then it is likely to enjoy the company, but it - privacy. And this is a cause for conflict.

In addition to internal and external qualities that you expect to see in his new friend, and your problem with compatibility, will have to think about his psychological and physical health. Just as in real life, getting to know someone you would not be very convenient to ask him a certificate of absence of AIDS, syphilis and other diseases. Although some marriage agencies provide this option and enter in their questionnaires Count on illnesses, including sexually transmitted. As in real life, you will have to rely on the honesty of his partner. In addition, it is no secret that the Dating in the Internet is often treated people who have problems communicating in real life. For example, you may find that your new acquaintance is suffering a set of self-doubt and a high level of anxiety at best and at worst - may be an alcoholic, drug addict or a severe mental illness such as schizophrenia. Over time, learning of this, you will be faced with a choice: leave him and cause him thus another injury or try to cope with this problem.

My experience of on-line dating

I have my own experience of dating online. My partner was a former alcoholic and drug addict, who at the time of our communication has suffered from severe depression. This did not prevent him from being clever, charming and handsome man. I must say that our first meeting was a major stress for me and for him. Before the meeting, we talked on the phone, I knew what his voice, but could not imagine how it looks, although it was possible to see the photo on the Internet. It seemed that when the meeting will be understood that there is someone that I needed or not. And indeed, it turned out that we are completely different people: we have different values, life experiences, education and so on. Even physically, he was below my growth (as I have said, the fewer options you enter in the questionnaire, the more choices, but the risk is greater). The problem of depression, we were able to cope (no wonder he found himself a psychologist). And after several months of communication, we decided to leave, remain good friends. I am very grateful to this experience, because not met a man resembling a circle of my acquaintances. I do not think that will loudly say that this meeting changed my life.

My experience and the experience of others shows that if you ventured to meet with their chosen one is real, the reality you see and feel in the face of a new partner may be very different from the virtual. To this meeting was not for you to stress or even a shock, try to learn more about the partner, communicating in the virtual space. If you can not connect a microphone or video camera, which provide much more information than just text, then at some point try to communicate by telephone. As known, the person perceives the surrounding reality in 5 organs of perception: sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch. Text and human speech are secondary and are based on the initial images created by these feelings. Therefore, the possibility of direct perception of the partner severely limited on the Internet. He is good, but rather for service or for play-acting in costumes and masks that conceal the true face. Perhaps this is why some people with certain problems in communication, in the area associated with emotional contact, the Internet is like a drug, because in it, and, in particular, on dating sites, such people will find plenty of useful information and painlessly for themselves expand the circle their communication. For many, the Internet has become a kind of ecological niche.