Nobody could even imagine in the beginning of the last century that a 50-years old woman will lead the same life-style as a girl of 25? Nowadays women have the right to stay a woman at any age. They can dress-up, visit cosmetic surgeons and even have personal life! Even a grandma having five grandchildren can easily have a “boyfriend” and go out for dates.

Second youth

Sociologists say that a period of youth has extended twice at present time. And you sure have some friends or relatives who are still active, cheerful and healthy in their 50’s or 60’s. Those people are lucky to have the second youth which is as a rule much better than the first one. Women who are not afraid to lead an active life even getting on in years are attractive and charming. They can fly right, they can behave and they know what they are worth. Today a 45-years old woman is not old. She is self-confident, she has a good job and her own opinion about different questions. She can take care about herself and be a standby for her husband. She has already made herself a career and moderated her claims. She has already brought up her children and they are living by themselves. At last she got rid of her youth complexes. Actually she is a perfect woman.

What is her problem?

There always will be people who are dissatisfied and malcontent about a “young grandma”. And usually these people are children of such an active lady. Children don’t understand her. They expect their mom to stay home with her descendants, bake pasties and sure do not have any private life. They consider that after 40, 50 or 60 it’s just indecently for a woman to date a man and go out with him. Such children should remember that in 15-20 years they will also become grandparents. Would they be happy with staying at home and babysitting?

To marry a prince

Single women of a certain age still want to have their own family. Some of them date men of the same age. And public opinion is indulgent about it. Other women date and get married with men who are much younger than them. Public attitudes to them are quite different. Most relatives and friends criticize such a couple. But people forget about numerous examples of many happy couples with serious age gap. Older lady is wise and confident, she takes good care about herself to look as attractive as young women. By the way women have a peak of sexuality after 35 years old and men at 25. So a way-wise woman who past her first youth has enough means to make a younger man to fall in love with her.

Right attitude

Sometimes you can see two women of the same age, in their 50’s. One of them looks like a real grandma, an old lady whose life is almost finished. And the other one is smart and fresh, she is well-dressed and has a stylish haircut. What is the main difference between them? The attitude to life and to themselves! The young old lady knows that life is beautiful and interesting. She is still curious. She wants to live and to feel herself alive. That’s the secret of her second youth. And it’s very important not to forget about it.

Author: Natalia Novikova