I am single, i live alone, in my 50s but can pass for 35, 176lbs, i like cooking cookouts and having a good time with family and friends, i have a heart of gold an have respect for anyone or anybody and treat everyone the way that i should be treated, i enjoy shooting pool going out to the theatre or stay at home an watch good movie at home or playing a game of spades, is alot of fun to, i have three children none at home so i don't have to get dress if i don't want to and it feels good to have this option, i love a good conversation on any topic and i can hole my own on a few subjects, i hate to say it ladies i am just a little bit shy at times, until i get to know you As i mentioned that i am shy at times and can't put it together to walk through the door when it is already open, so i am looking for that special lady/woman to see that i am capable on intelligent conversation holding no prisoners, respectful, honest to a fault patient funny and serious when need be, to see the possibility that she may have someone very special and a take chance and look a little closer, and i promise if you look into my eye and your are the right lady\woman there will be know safer place but in my arms, now i am looking for a woman\lady that has total and complete respect of self and the ones she love and the people around her, this is very important because if she has respect of of herself she will respect me than trust and all the beautiful thing a relationship should be built upon will happen, trust and respect,